Hey there Richard,
It looks like you got a lot of good feedback with your post on the Facebook CDP page and I agree with all of the methods people have mentioned. :-)
For my guys/leaders, making them count out loud, and then stomp out the correct rhythm to that beat, to different types of songs has been extremely helpful. Is it just for WCS or for other styles too?
Figuring out what instrument to listen to, and what drives the beat to dance to - is so tricky, but it's vital, as you know. I think Brian dropped a few links for you, but I hope all of the ideas from here and the FB post help your struggling dancer!
Let me know how his progress goes and if something worked/clicked!
Commented on where should i move for WCS?
13 May 11:34
Hey there Travis! New Mexico is beautiful, but you're right...not much dancing going on. I know that Chicago and the surrounding area has a great WCS community. They have weekly dances and tons of great instructors in the area. I'm not as familiar with the New England area, but I found this website that has dances/events in that area, with a dance calendar which might give you some contact info. https://www.dcwestcoastswing.com/dance-calendar
You could always move to Louisville ;-)
Brian might have more insight for the other areas. Happy dancing!! Hope you find a great new community!